In the spirit of the January sales, your dating profile is
basically the shop window where you showcase yourself as ‘datable’. However
most of you, let me emphasise the most being, nine out of ten of you are
definitely the equivalent to the 99p store or cheap Sunday market stall with
‘Dagenham Dave’ type of goods on show! Do you get the picture? So what can you
do to make yourself the top dog, the Louis Vuitton, highly desired singleton
that girls just cannot wait to get their hands on?
Well boys, today is your lucky day. I am giving away one of
my biggest secrets by telling you how a dating profile catches my eye. If there
are any ladies reading this, please feel free to share your tips for what you
are looking for in the comments below. After all, you could potentially be
helping your Mr Right catch your eye!
Here are my three top tips for your dating profile:
1) Have a good profile picture
I will automatically ignore any guy with no picture.
Confidence in yourself is a major attraction so don’t hide away and be shy. If
you don’t picture well, let’s be honest we all have a bad photo or aren’t the
most photogenic, then practice. As stupid as that sounds, do it! Find out what
is your good side, which angle suits you best and make sure you have good
lighting to show your best features! If you find your profile is not attracting
the calibre you intended, then change your picture. As shallow as it sounds,
your picture is one of the key factors to make or break it to the next stage.
2) Complete the ‘about me’ section
If this section doesn’t catch my eye with something witty or
unique, you are not worth my time. Think elevator pitch in the space of a short
paragraph. What is it about you that is intriguing or captivating? I want to
know if you have a personality that I would be attracted to. If you’re just
plain, simple and bland with the usual ‘I like watching sports, eating out and
spending time with family and friends’, that just isn’t enough, because guess
what? So does every other guy! If you’d like your profile audited, then get in
touch with me and we can arrange that (charges apply).
3) Be honest
If you’re not honest from the start, then you really won’t
last in the dating world. I have definitely met people who are not who they say
they are on their dating profile. If you find you need to lie to impress people
then you have some serious self-esteem issues. I know not everyone has
confidence to face the dating scene, since some people can be demeaning and
knock how you feel about yourself. I too have experienced this with the words
‘you’re bigger than the usual girls I go for!’ Though I think that is taking
honesty a little too far!
Hopefully you may now take a second look at your dating
profile and ensure it is fully optimised. You may have also noticed the new
features on AsianD8 which allows you to complete a more comprehensive profile.
As I mentioned before, please feel free to share your secrets and tips for
dating profiles in the comments below. So fellas, take the time to transform
your shop window from a 99p store to something a little more desirable. Ladies
… happy shopping!
Dating profile played very important role in dating sites. Always try to make it good.
ReplyDeleteGirls are good at reading advice online, or getting advice from friends. Girls are great at giving advice (just like this blog) BUT do guys bother researching and learning ? and trying to improve themselves?
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ReplyDeleteBut in my experience just having a good picture, showing 6-pack or ripped physique is enough to succeed with online dating. The about me section is secondary, only becomes primary if you have an average photo or average looks.
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