Monday, May 6, 2013

Why are girls so stupid?

So, any girl reading the title of this probably feels slightly offended right now, but read on and you will soon come to realise that this is in fact true (especially if you’re single). To be fair, it’s not really our fault as God has created the male species such that we will perhaps never fully understand them (and with that thought, I believe the feelings are mutual). In any case, part of life is to meet the right person, get married and start a family (you know the drill) but most of all don’t forget to have fun in the process, where dating usually plays its role.

Does it ever feel like it’s actually not fun, hard work or stressful? Yes, we have all been there. Dating can sometimes feel like a chore especially when you meet one loser after another. To be honest, the loser in fact is you. You’re making the wrong choices and falling for the traps you should be reading early on.

Here’s my advice ladies … don’t be stupid and DON’T:

1) Fall for Mr. Hard Work – he frustrates you and doesn’t treat you well

2) Fall for Mr. Lead Her On – if words don’t resonate in actions

3) Eagerly call / message – when there isn’t the same in return

4) Be ‘easy’ – you should know what I mean by this

5) Let your guard down quickly – there is a reason we all have one

I hope there is some truth in this for you ladies. Men be warned, we’re onto you

I would love to know if you’ve experienced any of these situations so leave me a comment below or hit me up on Twitter @abst4r .

Until next time, so long singletons x

5 comments:

  1. Girls are not always stupid, but some times they are. ;) well great blog, good piece of writing. Thank You

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  2. LOL i love the post. Im actually going through alot of work myself and my dating has suffered because of this.

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  3. Maybe you should not fall for anyone, but take time to find out who he is and see if he i ready to work on i with you.

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  4. Good advice. Especially number 5. I often think of the song by The Editors where the chorus says "People are fragile things, you should know by now. Be careful what you put them through"... and well that's how I treat women and all people in general. If only everyone else did the same!

    Ocean82

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  5. The funny thing is your list is actually the type of guy girls tend to go for.

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