Why am I single?

So you are twenty something, have a fantastic career, a great bunch of friends, a personality that is second to none and look hot as hell (most of the time – well so you think!). Everything in life seems perfect yet you know you are approaching an age where children and marriage are no longer in the distant future!

You ask yourself time and time again why it is so difficult to meet Mr/Miss Right? This post should hopefully answer and conclude why this is the case. Let’s take a look at some of the answers to your single status.

Top 10 Dating Disasters

So we have all been on a date and it doesn’t let say go as well as we had expected. From looking nothing like their photo, to being 5 inches shorter than what they had described. Nonetheless, I think you will safely feel that you have had the best dates ever after reading the 10 worst dating experiences. They range from bizarre, to funny, to sick and shocking! Brace yourselves for this…

So I have a stalker...or is it a hacker?

So as you know I have been tweeting about the fact I have a stalker... And I am not over dramatising this! I am currently playing detective with the help of a friend to catch him...(making my life into a movie!).

So how did it start?! A guy, hacked into my friend Jinal's Facebook and acted as her to get my number. I then realised it wasn't her but it was too late... He now had my number. The guy who disclosed his name as Jason/Jay to me acted as if he knew me and wanted to 'get to know me'. A few harassing calls and texts followed during the week.

Now here is where this sh*t becomes a digital next level cyber hacking scandal!

What NOT to message on dating sites

So as you know I am on dating sites and it's really not a big deal.

It's a good way to meet some normal decent guys, however, you do get the occasional weirdo with the type of messages that make you say wtf!

I wish I kept the weirder ones! But here is a selection of a few that I definitely did NOT reply to!

My advice to girls ...

Guys should appreciate u.
Make u feel special.
Give u attention.
Tell u they miss u.
Not be afraid to say how they feel. Advise u.
take care of u.
Be there for u when u need them and even when u dont think u do.
Call u just even for a minute to say hey.
Tell u good night.
Be romantic.
Surprise u.
Show u affection.
Hold your hand.
Make u feel like there is no one else in the world for u ... Or even for them.
Be all that and more ...

Dating Site Guy Numero Uno

Last year I decided to join a dating website - which believe it or not was not my idea! I got pushed into doing it, I swear! (Gun to my head and all sorts!). Anyways, totally enjoyed the interest I received … 630 interests in first 3 weeks and over 4,000 profile views! Let me add to the stats – 300 interests were in 48hours! Yes! I am boasting… but even Cheryl Cole or Kim Kardashian probably wouldn’t get that!

So I did my usual searching through 1,000 minging profiles and came a cross a nice looking guy, to whom I expressed an interest. About a week later, he accepted. However, I’m a cheapskate Indian and did not wish to fork out £51 for 3 months just so I can contact the guy, so tried to find him on facebook! If there ever was an award for Facebook stalker of the century, hands in the air, I would win that! I didn’t even know the guys name based on his profile but guessed what it might be from his nick named user ID and searched through about a few hundred and stumbled across his profile on facebook!